one month later...

I've been gone awhile so maybe I should introduce myself again to everyone.

It's me, Melissa

and I'm so thankful that life is starting to get back to normal,

I really like normal.

So it's obvious that I have not done well with the changes that have happened recently.

All great changes but it's not easy going from la de da doing whatever I want when I want

to having to manage my time, plan way ahead and run errands on the weekend

I hate running errands on the weekend

All of this right at the same time life is the craziest 

with sports, school, holidays, birthdays, home projects and going back to work.

I know this is just normal stuff people do everyday 

work, take care of a home and juggle being a parent

but all of this stuff going on at once was a bit overwhelming for me at times.

With that all said, I'm happy that the school year is coming to an end

and hopefully if I get to work again next year I will have myself a little bit more prepared.

So a little catch up is in order...

Our new carpet is in and we love it, it feels so good on our feet.

But with new carpet comes having to redecorate some of the rooms 

why,  I don't really know but it's sure causing me a lot of work

I think I'm going to really love the rooms when it's all said and done though.

I like my job.

The kids are of course my favorite part, 

some of the challenging kids or the super shy are some of my favorite.

One sweet little boy picked me dandelions on recess 

while another asked me if I just farted while walking down the hall next to him

I never know what I'm going to get day to day.

I've even done a little subbing, which isn't my favorite thing

but have taught 4th grade, been the PE teacher and tomorrow will be the music teacher

which really is just hilarious so we will see how it goes.

Sports are wrapping up this month for us, thank goodness.

Luke finished up flag football and came a long ways.  He started out a little intimidated and unsure

but ended up being the most improved player and gaining a lot of confidence.  In the fall he will be playing tackle football so I'm sure we will be starting from square one with him once again on his confidence. This poor kid has anxiety about everything and has started having sleeping problems so it hasn't been fun.

Ryan will be finishing up karate this month and then we are taking a break over the summer.  He still loves it but I'm just not a fan of having to pay for year round sports, this momma and her checkbook needs a break.

We celebrated a nice Mother's Day in Emmett this year with the family,

everyone that is except Tucker.  We don't even know who he is anymore, he is so busy with work and his days off rotate through the week so we never get to see him.  I haven't seen him since Christmas!

I do love being a mother to these three boys!

 Even when they are being like typical boys and are gross and disgusting, I love being their mom

and sometimes I can't help but laugh even at the disgusting stuff.

For instance,

when my oldest son tells me he is going to try really hard to get in the habit of changing his underwear everyday.  My response, you don't already do that?  Gross.

when my youngest son comes out of the bathroom after a long time and shows me a grenade he made out of an empty toilet paper roll stuffed with toilet paper, apparently we had run out of toilet paper so he had to stuff it with some clean and some already used toilet paper.  My response, throw that away and go wash your hands.

No matter what though I love them and am thankful for each of these days.  Most of them anyway.

 Right now we are looking forward to our first camping trip of the year over the long weekend

and finishing up school and work next week.

I can't wait for some long hot summer days.

Thanks for coming back and visiting me.

Hallelujah!

It's finished!

We survived the last few weeks of life around here,

it was a lot of hard work

and I'm one that doesn't mind a little work

 but there were a few days that I was wondering if we would even make it

but thankfully we did.

If we weren't at work or running the kids to a practice or a game

then you could find Heath and I at the house

painting two bedrooms

ripping out the carpet and padding

in four bedrooms, two living rooms, and the hallway and stairs

pulling out all the staples

vacuuming all the rooms with the shop vac

scuffing, cleaning, taping off and painting all baseboards that touched carpet

and

moving furniture
we worked non stop every single day until it was done.
It was such a sweet surprise when our favorite neighbors showed up the day before the carpet was getting installed to help move the last of the furniture and clean up the kitchen, Amanda offered to clean bathrooms but there was no way that I was going to let her do that (I wanted to keep her as a friend after all.)
And then my wonderful mom came over to help us put the house back together and ordered dinner for us,
it was a great way to celebrate the ending of our big project.

So now that our new carpet is in 

life has slowed back down

and we can get back to some normal days around here.

So the other thing that has changed around here is that I now have a job.

I'm working (actually getting paid this time) at the kids' school

as a para helping out the Kindergarten, First and Second grade kids 

that might need a little extra help.

It's only 20 hours a week but it's a perfect job for me right now

having the same schedule as the kids and being right there with them 

I couldn't ask for anything more.

I wasn't really looking for a job right now but it all just kind of happened really fast

which is probably a good thing because if I had too much time to think about it

I probably would of freaked myself out.

It's so strange saying that I have a job right now

after being a stay at home mom for over eleven years

lucky me I only have six more weeks of work and then I'm off for the summer

and from there we will see what happens for next year with my job.

Looking forward to a very normal, hopefully boring week around here.

lucky 7

It's hard to believe that my little boy turned seven yesterday.

Ryan kept telling me that he wanted to have a friends party even though I had no energy or desire to plan one (does that make me a bad mom?).  My mind has been full and overwhelmed with all of our house projects, life stuff and me going back to work (more about that later) so I was hoping to skip a party this year, but he wouldn't have it.

He originally talked about having a Star Wars Angry Bird party and Amanda (my party planner) and I came up with some great ideas and it would of been the coolest party ever but I couldn't get myself to go any further with the planning.  So with that said, an email was sent out to his best buddies (which happen to be the kids of my best buddies) and the after school party at Bounce was planned. The kids had a great time, I got to visit with all of my friends, see some family I haven't seen in awhile, there was no stress or cleanup, it was awesome-the perfect kind of party! 

 Ryan's birthday morning started early with presents.  He was so excited to get his very own  Chargers jersey.  Heath was a little less thrilled, he can't understand why none of his boys like any of the teams he loves, but it's true he doesn't have any Tennessee Titans or Mississippi Bull Dogs fans around here.  I think it's pretty funny because the boys who love the Steelers and Chargers, like these teams only because of their mascots or because of how their logos look which is another reason it drives Heath crazy, he should just be happy that they love football.

Ryan's favorite gift that he got from us and Mawmaw Teresia was his very own ipod touch.  Now he can be just like his brothers and everyone should be happy that there will be no having to share, how sad is that.

 Ryan was so willing to let me take a few shots of him before school, he was all into giving me some action shots.  He's loving his new hair cut too, he is always calling it his faux hawk which I think makes him look so much older.  Like all mothers always say, I really can't believe my baby is seven today, where does the time go!  We sure do love this kid, it's a job  joy to be his mother and get to love on him everyday!

Happy Birthday Ryan!

in a nutshell...

Over the past couple of weeks we have:

Celebrated a little girl turning one

I just had to buy Kimber some squeaker sneakers like Ryan wore when he was learning to walk,

hearing the little squeaks each time he took a step was just too cute.

Cheered Ryan on as he earned his Tiger Yellow belt, he soon will be moving up to the big kids class.

Luke was my only kid to make it to school all week long, Cody missed three days & Ryan two. 

Thankfully we are all back to healthy.

I enjoyed a kick boxing class with lots of the family, always wanted to try one and now I can say that I did.  It was fun, I liked it.

We have watched a couple of Luke's flag football games in not the greatest of weather.

The coach put nicknames on the back of the jerseys for the kids.

Luke's just says McMullen, he wanted either Falon or Terrance (names from a wolf book he likes) but I wouldn't let him because we have never called him those names but he was hoping that we would start, sorry dude not happening.

Over spring break we watched a few movies, The Life of Pi, Parental Guidance (again) and The Croods.

We also picked out new carpet for the house so that meant a whole new list of projects to be done.

Things like painting a couple of rooms, painting all of the baseboards, and ripping out all of the old carpet.

I'm already tired but only ten more days of work and it will all be done.

Easter at my parents with the family.

Pictures after church, which always makes everyone so happy.

(I uploaded them too small so they don't look so good)

but I promise you that we were all looking fabulous.

The egg dying, Easter egg hunt, angel food cake, golden eggs, ceramic painted bunnies

all things you see year after year

We also celebrated this big guys birthday.

It was a little early but the family was all together so it worked out best.

Ryan didn't care he was loving every second of it,

plus he still has a friends party and his actual birthday coming up, so it's a win win win for him.

 He loved all of his presents but we all had a little fun with this one.

The weather was absolutely beautiful, it was so nice being outside.

Easter day was wonderful, 

it was that night when Cody, my mom and sister all happened to get the flu

the rest of us were thankful that it didn't spread anymore.

 Life is not slowing down at all 

if anything it's about to get a lot more crazy around here.

stay tuned

overstuffed weekend

 Friday...

the tournament started for Cody's basketball team
I couldn't be there because I was at Luke's football practice
it was a bummer that they were at the same exact time
but Heath was there and said Cody did great
Coach wanted him to get more aggressive and confident
and that's just what he did, he's come a long ways
getting the game updates by text was killing me
I was getting so anxious
 sadly though his team lost by two points
even though they were in the lead up until the last quarter
Cody was so bummed that it was all over with
he had a great season and he is already thinking about next year.

Saturday...

I convinced  asked Amanda and the girls to go out shopping with me

there were some things that I had to get checked off of my list

they just had to get done no matter what

but one stop was just to check out a great sale that was going on at the GAP

we had no idea that everyone else was planning the exact same thing

the place was packed and the lines were at least forty people long to check out

We did try on a lot of things but I was just grabbing things along the way too

throwing them into my bag

I was sweating bullets as they were ringing up all of my things

my receipt said that I saved three hundred and twenty one dollars,

I didn't know if that was a good or bad thing?

but I do know that our Easter outfits are now bought 

so that makes me very happy 

and I love how bright and colorful we will be.

Sunday...

morning the boys enjoyed a little Saint Patrick's feast before church

we all were wearing our green like most everyone else at church 

but somehow we missed getting a family picture taken

oh well

Right after church we headed over to my brothers house

where we were having a family celebration

to celebrate our two March birthdays

one who is just barely in her twenties and the other who is at the tail end

Brooke turned 21 and Summer 29

it's funny to think that they are just eight years apart and 

that Matt was just eight years old when Brooke was born

They both deserved the day to be celebrated

we sure do love them.

Even though we will be celebrating this little girls first birthday

in just a couple of weeks

she was still the life of the party

This is how happy she was all day long

she is just the sweetest thing

we can't get enough of her

Spring break is starting in just a few more days

and we couldn't be more ready.

what's making me smile these days

it's the little things like:

Ryan's outfits that he picks out for school. 

 I do give the kids advice sometimes on what they should wear but not all of the time

as was the case in this outfit.  Can someone remind me why I bought red sweat pants in the first place?

Cody's writing from school, nothing to explain there other than it makes me happy to read.

When Luke gets mixed up with his words and called his football team The Beagles instead of The Bengals.

Listening to Cody and Luke sing songs like Fallen Kingdom from Minecraft, it's fun seeing them getting more into music even if it does have to still do with a video game.

Speaking of singing, does anyone else get the McDonald's Fishy McBites song stuck in their head?

Cody loves eating the McBites but I had to laugh when Ryan told us that shrimp is the only sea creature that he will eat.

A portrait of myself that Ryan drew of me (Minecraft cube style), I'm looking amazing.

In Luke's class the kids had to each pick out a musher to follow in the Iditarod race, Luke picked his out because of the way his hair looked. Too bad it's not paying off though, his guy is in forty something place and Luke's not very happy about it.

Hope you have plenty to be smiling about in your days too.

you know what they say

about paybacks...

so last week Heath left for two and barely a half days to go steelhead fishing
when he got back he asked me if I missed him
and I told him, "no, you weren't gone long enough to be missed."
I know that was so mean of me, right?
anyway so he's gone again to go steelhead fishing some more
but this time he's gone for six days
and I can honestly say that I miss him already.
the time he's gone just happens to be the week where all of the kids activities overlap
Cody's last week of basketball practices to get ready for his tournament
Ryan's karate classes that happen to be at the same exact time and days as
Luke's football that just started up with practices this week
not to mention the fun of adjusting to daylight savings time
and taking care of all the other day to day stuff.
so lesson learned
I'm keeping my mouth shut next time and just missing my husband.